Readers, welcome back! As I talked about how I will be introducing you to the Coaching Skills for online meetings we follow at Rate My Meeting, in the first post, I talked about how one should gain mutual Trust and Respect, in the second post I talked about 4-points checklist for Personal Development in meetings, in the third, I talked about 4-points checklist for Why to Focus on Asking Questions instead of Giving Advice, and today I'm back with the 4th installment from the total 6 Online Coaching Skills. So let's get to it!
Six Coaching Skills for successful online meetings
It starts with mutual trust and respect, because you will only receive what you give. Then follows focus on personal development, insights driven human growth. After that comes focus on asking questions to trigger thinking processes. Succeeded by actionable advice, which means a clear breakdown of next steps towards actionable results. Then comes coaching by teaching theories to give next steps, model based structure basically. To conclude, we focus on clarification of next steps, so that there is ownership for the agreed actions.
We continue today's post with: Start Giving Actionable Advice with these easy steps!
Start Giving Actionable Advice with these easy steps!
According to Harvard Business Review: seeking and giving advice are central to effective leadership and decision making. Yet managers seldom view them as practical skills they can learn and improve. Receiving guidance is often seen as the passive consumption of wisdom. And advising is typically treated as a matter of “good judgment”—you either have it or you don’t — rather than a competency to be mastered.
When the exchange is done well, people on both sides of the table benefit. Those who are truly open to guidance develop better solutions to problems than they would have on their own. They add nuance and texture to their thinking—and, research shows, they can overcome cognitive biases, self-serving rationales, and other flaws in their logic.
Advice has more value when it is actionable. The coachee knows what to do, and feels able to do it. Break down the advice in 3-5 sub-steps that each are doable and oversee-able. Make them building up, so that the first action triggers the next. Assure quick results, for progress. And offer your help during the process.
Start Giving Actionable Advice with these 5 easy steps
1) Finding the right fit
Because each request for advice is unique, reflecting a distinctive combination of circumstances, personalities, and events.
2) Developing a shared understanding
Because at this stage your primary goal as an advice seeker is to convey just enough information to grasp the problem they face, why it poses a challenge, and where you hope them to end up.
3) Break down the advice
In 3-5 sub-steps that each are doable and oversee-able so that there is no confusion between the others and yourself.
4) Keep the Ideas in Loop
And make them building up, so that the first action triggers the next to incur a flow like rhythm.
5) Advice is best treated as provisional and contingent
It should be a cycle of guidance, action, learning, and further guidance—not a fixed path forward. Offer your help during the process and after the process is complete.
In essence it's about helping participants by giving them actionable advice
As mentioned earlier: Giving Advice is best treated as provisional and contingent: It should be a cycle of guidance, action, learning, and further guidance—not a fixed path forward. Especially if the advisory process has occurred over an extended period, circumstances may have changed by the time you are ready to act.
So follow up for further advice if needed. Here at Rate My Meeting we help you take care of all these issues. Collect honest and open answers from all the participants right after the meeting and generate insights to see how well you did and where you can improve during the upcoming meetings.
More Coaching Skills for Online Meetings
More coaching skills for online meetings don't stop here. Stay tuned for my next posts where I shall be sharing other important aspects for successful meetings and about how Rate My Meeting helps in giving you accurate feedbacks! So stay tuned.
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